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I am a vibrant woman with a zest for life! I am energetic, always on the go. I am sociable and kind, always ready to offer a warm smile and listen attentively.
Charlotte (41) Straight Female
I have many interests. I like nature, sport and horseback riding. I have love for traveling which fuels my curiosity and sense of adventure, exploring new cultures and natural land..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster
Me and my boyfriend are looking to adopted a pup to join our fun times, someone who is free to come and go and perhaps stay for a while, feel free to ask me questions I will explain more
jakepe1994 (31, 31) Straight Male, Straight Female
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Pegging
  • Roleplay
  • Switch
  • Toys
We are a loving couple who loves to watch movies and cuddle a lot, we love gaming and day trips
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
I'm 54 years old, living in the Barnsley region.
Goldengoddess (54) Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Breast Play
  • CBT
  • Chasity
  • Collaring
  • Contract
  • Cuckold
  • Dom
  • Dungeon Parties
  • Electro-Play
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Findom
  • Fisting
  • Foot Fetish
  • gags
  • Latex
  • Medical Play
  • Pegging
  • Pony Play
  • Roleplay
  • S&M
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • suspenders
  • Toys
  • Trampling
  • Wax Play
I'm 54 years old, living in the Barnsley region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 29 and 88.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Barnsley
Seeking a Connection
FriendlyDreamer (62) CD / Trans Straight CD / Trans
I'm 61 years old, living in the Rotherham region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a woman aged between 51 and 90.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Rotherham
A friendly and interesting person, love to have fun to the fullest bond
Hamdan (32) Gay Male
  • A Relationship
  • Bottom
  • Friendship
  • Gay
  • Top
  • Versatile
I am curious and would like to explore and looking forward to meet new people and see how it goes
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
It takes seconds to make good friends that last a lifetime
Goldengoddess (54) Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Breast Play
  • CBT
  • Chasity
  • Collaring
  • Contract
  • Cuckold
  • Dom
  • Dungeon Parties
  • Electro-Play
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Findom
  • Fisting
  • Foot Fetish
  • gags
  • Latex
  • Medical Play
  • Pegging
  • Pony Play
  • Roleplay
  • S&M
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • suspenders
  • Toys
  • Trampling
  • Wax Play
Let's explore our sexual desires together "Hey there! I'm really interested in exploring the world of sub dom dynamics. I've always been fascinated by the power dynamics and the t..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Hello everyone , I'm very happy to meet you hopefully we will have lots of fun together making lots of new memories
Mistressniki234 (49) Straight Female
  • A Relationship
  • BDSM
  • Bondage
  • Discreet Meets
  • Dom
  • Feet
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Leather / Latex
  • Pegging
  • Short-term Fun
  • Sub
  • Tickle Play
  • Toys
  • Video Chat
if u disagree with my ways punishment will be serious harshly hard punishment on your naked body daily until you understand what you need to do from the start, never stear at me or..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster
’I’m Chloe, a trans woman seeking a dominant partner who is interested in guiding me through my submissive desires. While I’m relatively new to this dynamic, my eagerness to learn and please is limitless.
Chloe88 (37) CD / Trans Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Chasity
  • Collaring
  • Roleplay
  • Sub
  • suspenders
the feeling of being completely taken by a dominant partner who values trust, respect, and mutual satisfaction as much as I do. I relish the tension that builds when you take contr..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Hi I’m Alex Not on here for hookups Looking for a dom not just in the bedroom but also in day to day life I liked to be looked after but most of the time I’m just completely independent
SUBatomic (21) Straight Female
  • A Relationship
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Dom
  • Roleplay
  • Short-term Fun
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
I like someone who can take control of the relationship but not in a toxic way just so I don’t have to make decisions and get anxious I can’t lie public stuff does get me going
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
I’m taking a look at the website
Azizz (31) Straight Female
  • Dom
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Foot Fetish
  • Spanking / Whipping
Dreaming of domination and feet fotish, domination
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Easy going and calm honest respectful
jdfecehegeccejbh (36) Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Breast Play
  • Contract
  • Fisting
  • Pegging
  • suspenders
Hey hey , I am sunny Julia always with a positive and a smile ahahah. although my life is not so colorful and joyful, I still always try to remain the kindest and most positive per..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
I’m not a novice, but then again not a professional, I’m here to learn from all and anyone who wants to help and teach me how to enjoy the finer things of bdsm
Hermoine (64) CD / Trans Bisexual CD / Trans
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Clubs, Parties & Socials
  • Discreet Meets
  • Dom
  • Dominatrix
  • Dungeon Parties
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Friendship
  • Open to Whatever
  • Roleplay
  • Short-term Fun
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • Swinging
  • Switch
I love to be made to push my boundaries in anyway that helps you in becoming a better, Master, Mistress, submissive,
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Hemsworth
uhh,hi. i’m looking for a dom to satisfy all my needs : )
gracce_x (22) Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • gags
  • Roleplay
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • Toys
uh, i’m 19. i’m 4’11 if that’s helps ahaha i’m a sub and a brat :)
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Hot and horny classy lady here waiting to dominate you filthy lot!
PassionateProfessorigeihc (51) Straight Female
  • Dom
  • Findom
  • Open to Whatever
I get my kicks from doing whatever you like….with certain limits!!
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Staincross
Experienced sub looking for serious Dominant/Top for long term and regular servitude.
Debsub (55) CD / Trans Other CD / Trans
  • A Relationship
  • BDSM
  • blindfold me
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • CBT
  • Dungeon Parties
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Fisting
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Friendship
  • gags
  • Hookups
  • Latex
  • Medical Play
  • Pegging
  • Roleplay
  • S&M
  • Short-term Fun
  • spank me
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • suspenders
  • tie me up
  • Toys
  • whip me
Not interested in any commercial / pay-to-play, fin arrangement... real only. Subbie, Experienced in real time, previously collared and served couples and singles, any gender or ..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Looking for someone I can connect with on a personal level aswell and actually enjoy the moments
Calfrasta (33) Straight Male
  • A Relationship
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Discreet Meets
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Friendship
  • Hookups
  • Local Only
  • New Friends / Platonic
  • Switch
Going for a walk but not knowing where I’m really going
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster
Will fill this in as we go, but I'm wanting to explore this lifestyle a little more.
CurvyD_x (34) Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • gags
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • suspenders
  • Toys
Will fill this in shortly to see if this website is going to give me what I am looking for. In the meantime, enjoy the view. ;)
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Looking to meet someone regularly
Bsaucy55 (25) Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Breast Play
  • Dom
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Foot Fetish
  • Roleplay
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • Switch
  • Toys
I’m 22 years old looking to meet someone regularly on an agreement.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Tinsley
PreOp Transgender Male to Femal Woman
TransEmma1990 (35) CD / Trans Bisexual CD / Trans
  • A Relationship
  • First Time Encounter
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Sub
  • Switch
  • Toys
Omg I really have to put a minimum of 50 characters when I really don't know what I want tonput here yet.... this will do for now
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle.
Imeldabrooks (28) Lesbian Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Breast Play
  • Chasity
  • Collaring
  • Dom
  • Electro-Play
  • Fetish & Kink
  • Fisting
  • Foot Fetish
  • Latex
  • Pegging
  • Pony Play
  • Roleplay
  • S&M
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • suspenders
  • Toys
I like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring my partner.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield