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Find Local BDSM Encounters in London

Finding BDSM contacts in London can be difficult, especially if you are new to the scene. Join a community of open-minded singles living in London who enjoy BDSM. Our experienced members are here to show you the ropes and help you transition into BDSM life. Explore dominance and submission and express your desires in a discreet and secure online BDSM dating platform. Submit yourself and express your naughtiest fantasies. If you are looking for someone to spank or tie you up? Our members are into all kinds of kinks and fetishes. We have someone here for everyone.

Leave behind your vanilla life and explore our community. In The Adult Hub, we have dominants and submissives ready to play. Whether you are an experienced kink or new to the scene, complete your profile and find kinky singles in your area. Browse and match with the kinks who share your preferences and desires. Are you ready to receive your punishment? Our dominant members are firm, tough and fair. Be on your best behaviour and submit to your desires. Alternatively, find submissive members who are groomed and ready or unruly and needing put in their place. Be the dominant master/mistress you have fantasized of being. Your needs are meant to be fulfilled, find the one to do it in our BDSM dating community.

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In our community, you can express your kinky side and explore the world of BDSM with new playmates across London. Explore fetishes with our open-minded members. Discover the pleasure from bondage, wax, foot fetishes and more. Experiment with different fetishes and discover what makes you hot or become a hard-core fetish lover, the decision is yours. Unleash your alter ego on the BDSM scene, experiment with scene names or just be yourself. No matter who you choose to be, you are sure to find local BDSM encounters and hot meets here.

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Take your alter ego into the real world and attend local munches, meets and other events. Our localised calendar will keep you up to date with the hottest events happening across London. Our members are hosting events, and discovering the kinkiest dungeons in town. It’s time to explore the real scene and explore new realms of BDSM. Local events are a great way of meeting new kinks and expanding your BDSM contacts. However, if you are looking to keep your BDSM life a secret, find events across town where nobody knows your name. Scene names are the best way of keeping your vanilla life separate.

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Discover BDSM life in a community of open-minded singles and couples. Chat, meet and date the hottest kinks across London. Bring the city to life and explore the BDSM scene local to you. Live out your fantasies here.

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London profiles

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 33
  • UK England: Greater London London

Hi, I am Behnam

Music and movies and driving and many things.

  • Male
  • Gay
  • Age: 46
  • UK England: Greater London London

I am looking for friends and fun!

I'm 46 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 56. Tell me about you? Do you like sex? Do you like electric? Do you like me?

  • Female
  • Straight
  • Age: 27
  • UK England: Greater London London

Stepping into my full Goddess Era

I want you to know that all you asked would be done and more would be done to you. I will have you lick my ass and go pussy as much as I want you to. I love most regular fetishes like Tease & Denial, role-play, bondage, spanking, tickling, stretching body worship, feet and ass worshiping, handcuffs, blindfolds, medieval, ball gags, sensory deprivation, humiliation, confinement and caging, among others.

  • Female
  • Straight
  • Age: 36
  • UK England: Greater London London

I am a sweet Dominant woman seeking a sweet submissive alpha male

The kinky life is not a race! It is a world where you find the best things that fit into your world perfectly and you will get there faster when you embrace it. As a Dominant Mistress in my kingdom and dynamic soft touch kinky kindness mixed with the harshness of strict ideology that pleasing your D o m me is the key to feeling the fresh air of love and expediated release. Deep within you, you know that this is a healing - A healing from the things that you left behind that has been haunting you. The admission that kinky is the ultimate. Living a meaningful life is our only wish, we just want to be happy. Start serving me with ALL YOUR HEART, start with being a PAMPER-ER of your Mistress, start with understanding that there is a relief in admitting to yourself first that your Mistress leads you, guides you, shares in your journey and you being open and honest about it. Your STRICT Mistress gives you what is necessary to survive and be happy with the roles you play in your daily life!

  • Female
  • Lesbian
  • Age: 25
  • UK England: Greater London London

Hello everyone, I looking mistress

I'm nice girl, looking for a mistress or a couple of dominants.

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 25
  • UK England: Greater London London

I'm 25 years old, living in the London region.

I'm 25 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 28.

  • Female
  • Straight
  • Age: 46
  • UK England: Greater London London

You’ve found your purpose: serving me now.

You’ve found your purpose: serving me. I’m not here to entertain your fantasies—I’m here to drain your wallet and own your mind. Every tribute you send is a step closer to true submission. I don’t ask. I expect. I don’t beg. I command. Your money belongs to me. Your attention belongs to me. And if you’re lucky, I might acknowledge your existence. So go ahead. Show me how weak you are.

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 56
  • UK England: Greater London London

Looking for a female dom who wants a new toy.

New to scene and want a female dom who can show me the way.

  • Female
  • Straight
  • Age: 29
  • UK England: Greater London London

I’m that perfect mix of sweet and spicy

I’m a total clean freak; nothing turns me on more than a sparkling home and a little order in my world. I take pride in keeping my space (and myself ) pristine and polished. I’m obsessed with music, delicious food, and getting creative—whether I’m cooking up something tempting or diving into art with my hands, I pour passion into everything I do. Retail therapy? Always. A new outfit, fresh nails, good vibes—that’s my kind of self-love. ✨ I’m all about acts of care and connection: massages, reiki, meditation—anything that feeds the soul and keeps my energy glowing. I’m a seductive mix of sweet, sensual, and self-aware; a domesticated goddess with a touch of hot mess magic.

  • Male
  • Gay
  • Age: 21
  • UK England: Greater London London

Love wearing Ugg boots and my fuzzy onsie

Love Ugg boot and onesies looking for a mistress to obey

  • Female
  • Straight
  • Age: 36
  • UK England: Greater London London

Looking for a connection!

I'm 36 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 90.

  • Male
  • Age: 54
  • UK England: Greater London London

M53 submissive, looking for fun as someone takes control

I'm 53 years old, living in London. I enjoy the feeling of offering up control and being used for another's pleasure. I'm newly single after a long relationship came to its end and looking to deepen and explore my submissive side and to grow through adventure.

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 27
  • UK England: Greater London London

Longhaired bearded tattooed pierced fella

Be straight forward on what you like and how you want it.

  • TV/TS/CD
  • Straight CD / Trans
  • Age: 28
  • UK England: Greater London London

Commanding Trans Mistress Where Obedience Meets Ecstasy

I am a commanding Trans Mistress who thrives on power exchange, discipline, and the art of control. I expect respect, devotion, and total surrender. I don’t waste my time with pretenders I value true submissives who crave structure, order, and the intoxicating thrill of being under my authority.

  • Male
  • Bisexual
  • Age: 31
  • UK England: Greater London London

Looking for some fun and love to take control

I'm 31 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 86. Horny all the time love having lads watch me as I fuck their partner.

  • Female
  • Lesbian
  • Age: 28
  • UK England: Greater London London

28 single f bi sub London

I'm 28 years old, living in the London region being trained by a virtual Dom who wants me to find a dominant and assertive Older Woman to act as his real life proxy. I'm interested in meeting an experienced and assertive/aggressive older Les/bi mistress aged between 40 and 70. Initially get to know online but then meet and ideally a LTR with the right woman.

  • Female
  • Straight
  • Age: 47
  • UK England: Greater London London

✨ 6’2” of fun, mischief, and unapologetic pleasure.

I give as much as I take—long, teasing sessions where boundaries melt. Oral, anal, rimming, being taken or taking control… if it excites, I’m in. Looking for someone bold, honest, and adventurous enough to match my intensity. Swipe right if you’re ready to play, tease, and go where your fantasies only whispered… unforgettable awaits.

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 20
  • UK England: Greater London London

Looking for someone who actually wants fun

I like those who want what I want which is to have fun

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 35
  • UK England: Greater London London

Wanting to explore new things, open to experimentinh with different roles. Surpise me!

Looking for new experiences, open to different roles ans fantasies. Surprise me!

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 19
  • UK England: Greater London London

Hi I'm a young and fresh sub who has just Git into the BDSM world. I would love to start my journey of submission the right way, with a dom that will dominate me, control me and be my Goddess. I am ready to submit fully and be your lifelong servant.

For me the idea of being dominated and being beneath a powerful women excites me alot. I feel that's why I'm so I to feet as well. It would just be so fulfilling making my life purpose in being in full servitude to a godly powerful all mighty women.

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 19
  • UK England: Greater London London

I need a woman to own me do as they please

Come talk to me and find out more about me

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 28
  • UK England: Greater London London

I'm from Iran

I'm 28 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a woman aged between 18 and 60.

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 37
  • UK England: Greater London London

Ready to submit

I'm 36 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 27 and 47. I enjoy exploring different dynamics and experiences.

  • Male
  • Straight
  • Age: 55
  • UK England: Greater London London

To be continued.... Single French Canadian male

I want to share a lot of kinks. Get back to me and I will tell you more.

  • Female
  • Straight
  • Age: 44
  • UK England: Greater London London

New to this but can’t hide anymore

Enjoy not being in control in the bedroom Have only experienced a little but want to learn more