Tranny Talk
The LGBT (lesbian, gay, bi-sexual and transgender) community have a
lot of terms for different sexual orientations and subcultures. These
terms may get confusing so we try our best to summarize the most popular
terms used by this community.
Butch:
Butch lesbians tend to denote masculine habits like having short hair;
dressing in clothing that was designed for men, having masculine mannerisms
and behaviours. They are widely described as a dyke or a bulldyke. You
will hear a lot a lot about bulldykes in prison.
Soft butch: is a woman who exhibits some stereotypical
butch lesbian traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated
with butch lesbians. Soft butches or chapstick lesbians as they are
also know in lesbian chat, generally appear androgynous, rather than
adhering to strictly feminine or masculine norms. Soft butch is an acceptable
in-between state that is more acceptable amongst lesbian dating in the
UK than dykes who appear too feminine or too masculine.
The Bear community is a subculture advertised a lot
on gay personals. This type of gay refers to homosexual men with hairy
bodies and facial hair and usually large bodies. They are very masculine
and they like to promote this outwardly masculine appearance in the
gay dating scene. You will never find single gay personals where a bear
wants to hook up with a fairy - a gay who displays females like mannerisms
and speaks in a high pitched voice. Bears see themselves as a resemblance
of the typical blue collar American male and definitely not as an urban
queer.
Bisexual: Individuals or bisexual couples being sexually
attracted to the opposite sex and their own gender. Being bisexual can
get complicated because not all bisexual women and bisexual men encounter
equal attraction to men and women. Through their lives their attraction
for alternative genders may shift and they will encounter that they
have a desire to sexually engage with a certain gender sometimes more
than other times.
Bi-Curious: Traditionally heterosexual people who
are interested or fantasize about experimenting with homosexuality.
Chubbies or chubs is a subculture in the gay community
consisting of overweight or obese men. Most chubbies find solace on
gay sites and making new contacts and networking in this way because
it is easier for them to meet a man online than in real life because
of the way they look. Where straight overweight men have a Mr. Beer
belly competition, chubbies celebrate their full figures with the European
Big Men's Convergence title.
Drag kings: are female-bodied or -identified performance
artists who dress in masculine drag and personify male gender stereotypes
such as Elvis Presley, James Dean, Charlie Chaplin or Tim McGraw, as
part of their performance. They are thus exaggeratedly macho male characters
or male celebrities and their routine could include dancing, singing
or lip-syncing.
The Drag queen is a subculture of men that dress in
a female gender role. They exaggerate certain characteristics of females
like make-up and mannerisms for dramatic effect. Drag queens often perform
or entertain at an event and they are seen as true artists.Prominent
drag queens in the gay community of a city often serve as official or
unofficial spokespersons, hosts or emcees, fund-raisers, chroniclers
and community leaders.
Faux queen: is a drag queen trapped in a woman's body.
They are biologically female and thus known as a bio queen or even a
biologically-challenged drag queen or a "female female impersonator.
They also play with traditional gender roles and gender norms to educate
and entertain. It is really fun to chat with faux queens on lesbian
chat as they have the most unusual opinions and they have the best gossip
about other lesbian contacts.
A Gay skinhead, also known as a gayskin
or queerskin, is a male queer who identifies with the
skinhead subculture, often out of sexual interest. What attracts gays
to this subculture is the sexual fetish for skinhead clothing styles.
There are also gay skinheads that take part in gay dogging and have
a violence fetish. You will find many pictures and videos of skinheads
displaying masculinity on gay dating sites.
Lipstick lesbian: is usually a gorgeous woman who
takes care of herself and who is more attracted to other feminine women,
than a lesbian who is attracted to more masculine women. These women
like wearing make-up, dresses or skits and ofcourse they love shopping.
One of the best examples of a lipstick lesbian or doily dyke in the
lesbian community is the beautiful actress Anne Heche.
Shemale: A Male-to-Female transgender person who has
decided to leave male genitals while having female appearance. They
can appear female by having breasts, dressing up like a female and have
female characteristics. Shemales are basically transsexuals who haven't
had surgery to change their sex from male to female. So they are woman,
born in a man's body who is in the process of becoming a physical woman.This
term is widely used in the porn industry. Other terms that are used
to describe a shemale are ladyboy, tranny, transwomen, male-to-female
transgender or transsexual.
Tomboy: is an adult woman who typically wears masculine-orientated
clothes. They also like games and physical activities that are typically
considered to be the domain of boys. Things like fishing, shooting and
drag racing will be their fancy. Tomboys may appear butch but they are
not necessarily lesbians.
Transgender: refers to a wide range of categories
and includes transsexuals, transvestites, cross-dressers, genderqueer
and other lifestyles conflicting general society's norms. In general
transgender people are those whose gender identify doesn't match the
sex assigned to them at birth. In other words a biological male who
identifies with female is a transgender and vice verse.
Transsexual: You get transsexual people that undergo
sex reassignment surgery while others prefer to live with the genitals
they got at birth. Thus you get MTF (male-to-female, or M2F) and FTM
(female-to-male) transsexuals.