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TheAdultHub's lifestyle community — that bit's done.

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First, who are you?

We'll set who you're looking for to match — change it if we guess wrong.

Pick one so we know who to show you.

And who are you hoping to meet?

We've picked the usual answer. Change it if it's not yours.

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When were you born?

Members are 18 and over. We show your age, never your date of birth.

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And whereabouts?

This is how we find people near enough to actually meet.

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What are you hoping for?

We've ticked the one most members pick. Add any others that fit.

Pick at least one so we know what to look for.

What's your kind of play?

Up to six across this and the next screen. Skip it if none fit.

Anything else that's you?

These are what people message you about.

Last bit. Where do we send your matches?

You'll set your password on the next screen.

Ready and waiting on your profile:

    Pop your first name in.

    That email doesn't look right — mind checking it?

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      20+ Years active
      Est. 2003
      5.1M+ Verified members
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      • Every profile validated by our team before going live. No automated approval.
      • Free ID verification gives real members a blue tick badge visible in search.
      • Reporting tools on every profile and message. Accounts removed same day.
      • Private by default. Your photos and details visible only to who you choose.
      • Discreet billing. Nothing on your statement traces back here.
      • Community consent guidelines built into every feature.
      Read our Safety Guide
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      Creating a profile and browsing members is completely free. VIP membership unlocks unlimited messaging, advanced search filters, and private group chats for up to 50 people.
      Every profile is manually reviewed before going live. Members can also complete optional ID verification for a visible blue tick badge — it gives others added reassurance and shows in search results.
      Completely. Your real name and personal details are never shown publicly. Billing is fully discreet — nothing on your bank statement connects back to this site.
      Two open-minded pairs connecting for social evenings, soft swap, or full swap experiences. One of the most popular dynamics on the platform — you can filter search results specifically for it.
      TheAdultHub has active members across the UK, Ireland, USA, Canada, Australia, and New Zealand. The UK is the largest and most active community — with members in every county.
      VIP unlocks unlimited messaging, private group chats for up to 50 people, full search filters, and priority placement in results. VIP+ adds premium match access. Both billed discreetly — monthly or longer packages available.
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